How to find and fix the causes of your bad habits
The inversion of the 2nd Law of Behavior Change is make it unattractive.
Every behavior has a surface level craving and a deeper underlying motive.
Find love and reproduce = using Tinder
Connect and bond with others = browsing Facebook
Win social acceptance and approval = posting on Instagram
Reduce uncertainty = searching on Google
Achieve status and prestige = playing video games
Your habits are modern-day solutions to ancient desires.
The cause of your habits is actually the prediction that precedes them. The prediction leads to a feeling.
Highlight the benefits of avoiding a bad habit to make it seem unattractive.
Habits are attractive when we associate them with positive feelings and unattractive when we associate them with negative feelings. Create a motivation ritual by doing something you enjoy immediately before a difficult habit.
How to create a good habit:
The 2nd Law: Make it attractive
2.1 Use temptation bundling. Pair an action you want to do with an action you need to do.
2.2 Join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.
2.3 Create a motivation ritual. Do something you enjoy immediately before a difficult habit.
Inversion of the 2nd Law: Make it unattractive
2.4 Reframe your mind-set. Highlight the benefits of avoiding your bad habits.
Saduran dari: Clear, James. 2018. Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones (Chapter 10).
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